Sab saum toj rau blogger shares tswv yim rau cov hluas tham txog sexting pics
Raws li xov tooj ntawm tes thiab mobile ntaus ntawv siv cov tub ntxhais kawm qib high school thiab qib high school, qhov teeb meem ntawm tus hluas nkauj tau tsa nws lub taub hau rau peb cov zej zog. Los ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas sib tham - qhov twg sexting pics feem ntau xav tias yog 'ntiav' txawm tias cov ntsiab lus xws li 'Kik sexting' thiab 'Snapchat Sexting' siv lub hauv paus ntawm peb lub ntiaj teb - rau cov me nyuam yaus txhawj xeeb uas yog plob hav zoov thiab ua rau cov me nyuam yau thiab tweens nyob rau hauv xa cov duab provocative, youngsters noj liab qab pics thiab lawv raug faib ntawm xov tooj thiab internet.
Tsuas yog cov niam txiv muaj teeb meem ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas xa cov xov tooj ntawm tes thiab cov ntawv xov xwm xwb, tab sis cov kws qhia ntawv thiab tub ceev xwm tau koom nrog txoj kev nyuab siab li cov kab mob tshiab - thiab cov kev cai ntawm cov kev cai lij choj - tam sim no muaj kev cuam tshuam lwm tus sab nraud ob tog txuam nrog.
Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ceev faj txog cov tub ntxhais kawm siv xov tooj ntawm tes thiab qhib cov kab kev sib txuas lus ntawm tus hluas nkauj, hais tias Lori Cunningham, ntawm WellConnectedMom.com, uas yog blog siv rau cov niam txiv thiab cov tshuab.
"Koj muaj kev sib deev nrog koj tus me nyuam, koj yuav tsum muaj kev sib txuas lus nrog koj tus me nyuam," Cunningham said, hauv kev sib tham hauv xov tooj. "Kev vam meej nrog tus hluas sexting muaj ntau ua nrog kev sib txuas lus ntawm cov niam txiv thiab cov me nyuam."
Thaum muaj ib lub xov tooj ntawm tes tau siv los tsim kom muaj tus txheej txheem, hnub no tus hluas yog tam sim no koom tes nrog technology nrog cov hnub nyoog ntawm hormonal ntawm qib nrab thiab high school. Qhov kawg tshwm sim, Cunningham hais li no, yog qhov uas yuav muaj kev sexting tshwm sim thaum koj tus hluas pib hnub.
Txawm li cas los xij, tsuas yog xav txog ntawm tus hluas nkauj xwb, Cunningham hais tias kev ncaj ncees ntawm cov hluas thiab kev sib tham tuaj yeem ntev mus rau kev tiv thaiv qhov kev sib txuam ntawm kev sib tham txog kev sib deev thiab cov lus sib tham nrog lwm tus.
"Yog tias koj tuaj xam phaj cov hluas, feem ntau yuav hais sexting phem," nws hais. "Tiam sis, thaum lawv nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo, qhov txawv yog qhov ntseeg uas tsim - lawv xav tias [lwm tus neeg tseem ceeb] muaj lawv nraub qaum." Hmoov tsis, thaum lawv tawg, yog thaum cov duab no dhau mus. "
Cunningham txhawb cov niam txiv kom muaj kev hlub, tiam sis ruaj hauv kev piav qhia tias tsis yog txhua txoj kev sib raug zoo ua haujlwm thiab qee zaus cov hluas tawg ua tsis tiav zoo. Yog tias cov hluas muab cov duab no, lawv yuav pom, nws hais tias.
Thaum kawg, cov niam txiv tsis raug zam los ntawm lub luag haujlwm no vim tias koj tsis to taub cov cuab yeej siv.
"Qhov no yog kev sib txuas lus ntawm hnub no lub tiam," Cunningham said. "Kev to taub hnub no lub tshuab thiab siv nws nrog lawv cov hluas yuav tso cov niam txiv nrog lawv cov hluas (vim hais tias lawv siv tus me nyuam txoj kev sib txuas lus hauv lub ntsiab lus) nrog rau kev tiv thaiv lawv cov hluas los ntawm qhov xwm txheej."
Saum 7 Lub Tswv Yim rau Kev Sib Tham Txog Sexting nrog Cov Hluas
Ua niam txiv, kev tiv thaiv sexting yuav tsum tau kev sib txuas lus thiab kev npaj. Ntawm no yog ob peb lus qhia tawm los ntawm kuv tham nrog Mrs. Cunningham:
Ntsuas Kom Ua Ntej Ua Ntej Rau Me Nyuam Muaj Xov Tooj Ntawm Tes
Cunningham hais tias Dr. Charles Sophy, tus thawj coj kho mob rau Lub Nroog Los Angeles Lub Tsev Haujlwm Pab Cov Me Nyuam, pab tswv yim rau cov niam txiv kom xav txog kev siv xov tooj ntawm tes ntawm lub hnub nyoog 12. Txawm li cas los, nws tau ceev faj, tsis yog txhua tus me nyuam npaj.
Xav txog qhov hu ua Parent-Teen Cell Xov Tooj
Tsim cov kev ntshaw thiab kev qhia rau koj tus hluas thiab sau ntawv rau lawv.
Cia Cov Hluas Paub Txog Lawv Txwv
Ntxiv rau kev xaiv cov ntaub ntawv tsim nyog thiab cov ntawv xov xwm sib txuas lus, cov niam txiv yuav tsum tau piav qhia lawv tus hluas tsis muaj lawv lub xov tooj txawb. Ua ib feem ntawm qhov kev sab laj no, sib tham txog qhov kev xaiv ib qho kev soj ntsuam xyuas hauv xov tooj kom koj thiaj li soj ntsuam lawv nyob qhov twg thiab lawv ua dab tsi.
Paub Tias Lawv Yog Leej Twg Tham Txog
Khaws kev sib txuas lus qhib thiab rov qab kho cov kev cia siab niaj hnub ua los ntawm kev tshawb xyuas lawv lub xov tooj ntawm tes rau kev xaiv thiab lwm yam teeb meem kev ua si. Txwv tsis pub cov hluas los ntawm kev siv xov tooj ntawm tes lub xov tooj thiab ua rau lawv ua rau kev sim zais lawv qhov kev ua si. Tos nrog koj tus hluas txog lawv tus phooj ywg nrog, hauv online thiab tawm.
Sib tham txog cov cai, Cov ntsiab lus Sexting
Tshawb nrhiav online hauv kev cai lij choj nyob hauv koj cheeb tsam, thiab kev poob kev sexting. Nyeem cov dab neeg nrog koj tus hluas txog kev sib txawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus, kev kawm ntawv qib siab thiab nrhiav haujlwm, mus foob thiab tseem tua tus kheej.
Ceeb toom lawv txog kev xa tawm, Xa Cov Ntaub Ntawv Txog Tus Kheej
Txawm hais tias tsis muaj qhov nruab nrab, cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau qhia tsis pub qhia cov ntaub ntawv qhia txog lawv ntawm IM, email lossis text messaging, nrog rau tsev kawm ntawv, xov tooj lossis chaw nyob hauv tsev.
Thaum tsis ntseeg, Thaiv Cov Yees Duab
Feem ntau cov xov tooj ntawm tes yuav thaiv cov neeg siv xa tawm los yog tau txais cov ntawv xov tooj, yog tias lawv tsis muaj kev npaj tsis muaj qhov kev pab no. Yog tias koj muaj teeb meem nrog sexting, lossis txhawj xeeb txog koj, koj tuaj yeem kho koj tus hluas txoj kev npaj khomob.
Xav tau kev pabcuam ntxiv txog sexting? Cunningham muab ib tug "Cov Hluas thiab Cov Xov Tooj Ntawm Xov Tooj" dawb "eBook rau nws lub vev xaib.